How to win a spot with absolute “Hi”
HI is a way of greeting with people when we meet someone and on the other hand it is the way of dealing with situation what comes to you. Hi, is such a small word which matters a lot to everyone. Sometimes it becomes a habit to say hi to everyone and sometimes you will see people get afraid to say hi. Now you must be thinking what exactly my point is. Actually this writing is somewhere relates to earlier post if you have read that, but it can be identified separately as well.
First of all I want to welcome and say hi to everyone who have visited this blog & website and also reading this post right now. Hi is actually such a nice word. People always want to hear this word from you, especially if you are known to them. And again, it allows you to tell that it’s nice meeting you, let’s have fun, let’s keep meeting and so on.
By saying hi you are not just acknowledging someone’s presence but also creating and then maintaining a bond. But have you ever noticed, whenever you go somewhere and wave a hand and say hi it releases you from the half of your problems. Occasionally people find it tough to make a decision but once you do it, your shoulder feels relax. So here, hi is not addressing just to do hello, it’s your deciding spot to participate in circumstances. Here in order to say hi means you are perfect and prepared to deal, and it’s the smart choice.
Hi is a Smart choice, Why & How?
May be I will be explaining some old theory here and some of you already must be following the same. But purpose of my writing here to remind people who has forgotten their abilities. And it’s a very big fact that if you are always choosing to avoid the situations, it harms your personality badly.
Let’s say you are a very nice person and you are known for your good habits, people want to come and mingle with you and every time you are telling them today I am busy, today I have meeting and will come late from office. Yesterday I was not feeling well, tomorrow I have to prepare a presentation for the next day. I am sure even if you are busy you can take out half an hour for tea after tomorrow’s work. Then why you are avoiding to plan it?
Don’t you think, it is becoming your habit and it is bad?
Some another day internet is not working properly in your phone and you are like ok I can manage to exercise without music because you do not want to interact with customer care. Your milk packets are not delivered today and you are fine with it, its ok I’ll drink tea outside just because you again avoiding to say hi and discuss the delivery issue. You got a call for an interview just because it’s not that much nice company you are choosing not to attend the interview because you are not enough confident about yourself or the company.
Now here you must be feeling, what the big deal is? Well the Big Deal is, it is making you under confident, dumb and dull.
If you are considering that to live in ease without “Hi” (interaction) is the simple and right way. Then you are on wrong page because “Hi” (interaction) is the only thing which make your life easy. You can avoid things but not always.
Why Hi is a smart choice?
First of all it’s very humanitarian, hurtles & safe word. So if you are saying hey or hi with a smile it feels you smart from inside. See, you have just imagined and you started feeling great. It’s a quality if you are fearless in taking first baby step. It’s a nice gesture which helps you to make new friends.
How Hi is a smart choice?
- Improves personality: Every day you start experiencing negative positive effects of taking steps and eventually you learn how and when to take those steps.
- Develops confidence: I think now it’s self-explanatory. Once you start facing things all by yourself you get rid of hesitation and you become self-assured by remarking: hey I can do it.
- Expand opportunities: After gaining confidence your mind starts working in an opportunistic direction. You start seeking for new challenges and without making further delay you start making new relations.
- Good for mental health: When you will start working, it will be less chance to get bore or depress. This positive factor will give you a refreshment and mentally healthy life.
By saying hi you are welcoming things, whatever is coming to you. It is happening because your fear have gone now. It’s enhancing your personality automatically. It’s developing a habit to take the responsibility and do your work own, not to leave it pending for others.
A person with a creative mind set.